Caring too much for stuff around. Is it wrong? Some people believe indeed so.
But how can you not take it personal, if everything that you live is in fact personal?
You can pretend to be a machine, and it might even work sometimes. Maybe at all times. But that may work only for some people, not everybody (oder was?).
Then again, if you choose to change because it doesn’t work for you, then failing to achieve that change shouldn’t be acceptable.